Confidence isn’t just one thing—it’s made up of four essential areas that impact every part of your life. In this episode, we break down the 4 categories of confidence everyone needs to know about: how you think about yourself, how you present yourself, how you show up for yourself, and how you interact with others. You’ll discover actionable ways to strengt ... Show More
Jan 20
#687: Why Your Effort Still Matters (Even When You Can’t See Results)
When results feel invisible, it’s easy to stop believing in yourself — and that’s usually the moment people quit. In this episode, we’re talking about why effort always matters, how belief is trained (not hoped for), and what to do when your mindset starts questioning whether you ... Show More
22m 4s
Jan 13
#686: The Real Reason You Have Intrusive Thoughts (And What To Do About Them)
If you’ve ever thought, “Why would I even think this?” or “What does this say about me?” — this episode will help you feel calmer, clearer, and far less afraid of your own mind. Intrusive thoughts don’t mean what you think they mean — and today, we’re unpacking why. ✅ FREE CLAS ... Show More
27m 43s
Jan 6
#685: How to Stop Replaying Conversations in Your Head
In this episode, I’m teaching you why your brain gets stuck in the replay loop, the hidden fear underneath it, and exactly how to break the cycle — without needing reassurance, overexplaining, or perfection. ✅ FREE CLASS! LEARN HOW TO STOP CARING WHAT PEOPLE THINK Don’t forge ... Show More
28m 10s
Dec 2024
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FOUNDATIONS: Day Four: The Wealth, Health And Happiness Challenge - Building Confidence In this episode of Join Up Dots, we explore how to build unshakable confidence and boost your self-esteem. Confidence isn't just something you're born with; it's a skill you can grow with the ... Show More
19m 36s
Aug 2025
Most People Get Confidence Completely Wrong...
Want to feel more confident in your everyday life, work, or relationships? In this special compilation episode, I’m sharing 5 powerful confidence lessons shared by past guests — insights that I wish I heard years ago. These aren’t your typical surface-level tips. Each one is a mi ... Show More
21m 47s
Apr 2025
MASTER CONFIDENCE - How to Build Real Confidence, Self-Worth & Self-Esteem | Mafe's Sessions #9
Confidence isn’t something you’re born with — it’s something you build. In this episode we break down the truth about confidence, self-worth, and self-esteem. If you’ve ever felt like you weren’t enough, doubted your value, or struggled with insecurity, this conversation is exact ... Show More
14m 30s
Oct 16
432. Creating Self-Confidence (Greatest Hits)
Confidence doesn’t come from promotions, degrees, or other people telling you that you’re impressive. In this episode, I revisit one of the earliest conversations on the podcast to break down the myths about where confidence comes from and why relying on external validation alone ... Show More
22m 36s
Sep 2025
334. How to fully trust yourself
We live in a world full of opinions, advice, and expectations - and somewhere in the noise, our own inner voice can get drowned out. Learning to trust yourself sounds simple, but in practice it’s a hard skills to build. Doubt, fear of mistakes, and the pressure to “get it right” ... Show More
39m 21s
Feb 2025
219. The 5 Identity Shifts That Transform Your Social Confidence Forever
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style= "font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: 'Calibri',sans-serif;"> In this episode, we dive deep into why traditional "practice makes perfect" advice falls short when it comes to social skills, and explore how identity shifts create last ... Show More
19m 21s
Apr 2025
5 Powerful Lessons to Build Self-Trust, Boost Confidence, and Strengthen Self-Esteem
<p>Struggling to trust yourself? In this episode, you’ll learn 5 powerful lessons to build self-trust, boost self-confidence, and create lasting self-esteem. Discover practical strategies to silence self-doubt, make aligned decisions, and show up with authenticity in every area o ... Show More
17m 19s