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Jun 2021
39m 46s

#71: 6 Signs of Self-Confidence

Mary Jelkovsky
About this episode

Confidence is about owning who you are, whether you like how you look or not. Being pretty is not a prerequisite for confidence. Being accomplished is not a prerequisite for confidence. Being perfect is not a prerequisite for confidence. Confidence is a mindset.

In this episode Mary explains what a mindset of self-confidence is and 6 traits that can build, strengthen, and display confidence.

Here's a sneak peek into the 6 signs of self-confidence:

  1. You do not let your _____ ruin your _____ experience.
  2. You approach any struggle with ______.
  3. You ______ yourself and others.
  4. Other people's success ______ you.
  5. You don't take things _______.
  6. You use your ______.

Can you fill in these blanks?? Let us know!!

And make sure to get a copy of The Gift of Self-Love: maryscupoftea.com/book. It’s a self-love workbook that will help you build confidence, recognize your worth, and learn to finally love yourself. It’s available in stores and online, worldwide!

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