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Oct 21
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345. How to fall in love with failure

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We think of failure as a terrible thing or something to be avoided. But when you learn to fall in love with failure, a whole new level of growth occurs that will have you seeing progress faster than ever. In our 20s, the so called failure-decade, we talk about how you can learn to fail, including: 

  • The reasons we fear failure 
  • Why our definition of success is inaccurate and socially conditioned 
  • The relationship successful people have with success 
  • Why grit matters more than IQ 
  • Why your fear of failure is keeping you behind
  • 5 ways to ritualise failure in your daily life + more 

Listen now to change your entire mindset towards setbacks! 

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