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The Hidden Reason You’re Still Angry

Trista Guertin
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In this episode of This Daring Adventure, Master Life Coach Trista Guetin unpacks a real coaching conversation that reveals the surprising truth about anger — it’s rarely about the situation in front of you.

When one client felt furious after her cousin made burial decisions without consulting her, what seemed like a family dispute turned out to be something much deeper — unprocessed grief, regret, and a need for emotional closure.

Trista walks you through what’s really happening when you get triggered, why unresolved emotions resurface years later, and how to process anger in a way that brings peace instead of resentment.

This episode is an invitation to stop letting your emotions run your life — and start understanding them instead.

You’ll learn:

  • Why anger often hides deeper emotions like regret or powerlessness
  • How to tell when your reaction is about now vs. the past
  • The difference between surface-level problem solving and true emotional growth
  • The self-coaching shift that turns emotional reactivity into calm power
  • How to use this same process to heal old wounds and stop recreating painful patterns

If you’ve ever been mad about something and later realized it wasn’t really about that thing — this episode will help you see exactly why.

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