When your husband's family enables his affair and makes you the villain, the betrayal cuts twice as deep. In this raw and essential episode, Carl and Laura Lentz tackle one of the most painful questions they've received: what do you do when your in-laws collude with the affair partner, feed them information, and blame you for the infidelity? Drawing from the ... Show More
Aug 31
Forgiveness, Triggers, Relapse, and Alcohol: Your Questions Answered
Want to submit questions? Email us at hello@carlandlaura.comWe're home in Virginia Beach and back in the mailbag. In this episode of Lights On, Carl and Laura take on four of the most common questions couples in recovery keep sending in. Not the surface-level questions. The ones ... Show More
46m 6s
Aug 24
The Three Listener Questions Every Betrayed Spouse Needs to Hear
Want to submit questions? Email us at hello@carlandlaura.comCarl and Laura are back with a new season, a new studio, a new book, and one of the most tender openings this show has ever had. Before Carl and Laura get into the listener questions, Carl opens up about the sudden loss ... Show More
39m 47s
Dec 2023
Can God Heal the Betrayal?
Adultery does great damage to a marriage, and it's strongly warned about in the Bible. Pastor Rick and Tiffany Bulman discuss what happened after her affair with a friend came to light. Also, John and the Smalley's share about what you can do, if you're wondering if you'll ever t ... Show More
11m 35s
Jun 2024
I Stayed After The Cheating, But I Can’t Stop Thinking of Their Affair
Your husband has an affair. You take the conventional path and seek out couples’ therapy and probably individual therapy. It feels like the persistent negative thoughts, ruminations about his affair, visions of his intimacy with the affair partner, the anger and resentment won’t ... Show More
25m 20s
<p>In this episode, we are digging into betrayal and learning how to get your power back after someone shatters your trust.</p><p> </p><p>It’s happened to me and I know it’s happened to you, too.</p><p> </p><p>Maybe someone cheated on you. Maybe someone stole from you in business ... Show More
