logo
episode-header-image
Oct 2025
26m 56s

218. Growth Gap: The Tension Between Who...

Alissa Boyer
About this episode
tail spinning
Up next
Sep 1
259. How to Stop Feeling Like a Pushover in Conflict and Stand Firm When You Feel Wronged
In this episode, Alissa gets into why the instinct to smooth things over the second someone reacts to your boundary is actually a form of people pleasing, and why building your tolerance for that discomfort is the first step toward feeling unbotherable.Alissa traces this back to ... Show More
20m 17s
Aug 25
258. Why Am I So Triggered? How to Get to the Root and Feel Unbotherable
In this episode, Alissa gets into why triggers land the way they do and why finding the root cause is the first step toward feeling steady, unshakable, and less at the mercy of what everyone around you is doing.Most triggers trace back to one of two places, an old wound from the ... Show More
22m 34s
Aug 18
257. "I'm the type of person who..." Shifting Your Self-Concept By Changing the Way You Talk to Yourself
In this week's episode, Alissa shares a quick hack that quietly rewrites how you see yourself: "I'm the type of person who..." So often you pin your happiness on the outcome, the finished book, the dream partner, the number of followers. Alissa offers an alternative, letting the ... Show More
19m 29s
Recommended Episodes
Oct 2023
Ep 342. Embracing Discomfort and the Beauty of Being Vulnerable with Yourself.
<p><br /></p> <p>What do you do when your intuition hits, but listening to it would put you wildly out of your comfort zone.</p> <p>Isn't that how it always works though?</p> <p>In this episode I'm going to help you reframe this issue, so you can confidently step into the uncomfo ... Show More
29m 25s
Jul 2025
Growth Hurts (And That’s Okay)
Rosie reflects on a moment of imposter syndrome before a big panel and explores how discomfort is not the enemy—it’s the path. Stretching into new versions of ourselves always comes with some tension. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices 
5m 54s
Nov 2024
How to Like Yourself
In this episode, we explore the journey of becoming someone who genuinely inspires yourself. I share my personal transformation from relying on fear-based motivation to cultivating a life of true self-inspiration, highlighting both the struggles and revelations along the way.We d ... Show More
47m 37s
Aug 2022
EP 255: 3 Personal Growth Pitfalls to Avoid
Personal growth is not all bubble baths and cute journals.    There is A LOT that goes on behind the scenes of stepping into the healed next level version of yourself.    Inside of this episode I talk about:    -The Messy Middle (and why you need to know about this) -3 Pitfalls t ... Show More
32m 18s
Aug 2022
8. Get comfortable with being uncomfortable, change builds growth!
Back with a solo episode, today, Vanessa catches you up on what's been going on in life and how to start leaning into change in order to grow. Get comfortable with being uncomfortable and show up for you girl! Stay up to date with all things The Health Cafe: https://thehealthcafe ... Show More
24m 28s
Nov 2025
Navigating Change:. Embrace Personal Growth & Rewire Brain for Focus.
Episode Description:. In this empowering episode of The Dopamine Detox, we delve deep into the journey of personal growth and navigating change. Learn practical tips and strategies to embrace transformation, boost resilience, and foster a mindset that promotes continuous learning ... Show More
4m 39s
Sep 2025
Boost Self-Growth with Morning Affirmations
Episode Description:. Embark on a transformative journey of self-discovery as we delve deep into the power of trusting oneself. Uncover strategies to foster growth and develop confidence, while learning to embrace your inner strength. Key Takeaways:. Master the art of self-trust, ... Show More
4m 16s