This episode is full of red flags and awkward moments, starting with a guy in his late 20s unsure of how to give green flag energy. Before diving in, Jordana is celebrating her husband’s birthday soon so they discuss thoughtful gifts and Jared plans a date for them. Then, a listener asks how to show girls he’s interested without being overwhelming or pushy. ... Show More
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Is “Right Person, Wrong Time” Actually Real? ft Logan Ury
Jared is joined by Hinge relationship expert, Logan Ury, to break down some of the biggest dating questions listeners are dealing with right now. They debate whether asking for a voice note before a first date is an innocent preference or a major red flag, and unpack the idea of ... Show More
1h 23m
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The Silent Relationship Killer you CAN Avoid ft Aleen Dreksler
This week on U Up?, Jared is joined by Aleen Dreksler, CEO and co-founder of BETCHES, for a chaotic and honest deep dive into mama drama, ex etiquette, and career vs. kids debates. They discuss boundaries with mother-in-laws and what you can negotiate versus when you should just ... Show More
1h 16m
Feb 2025
148. How To Show Interest In Early Dating (Without Looking Desperate)
If showing interest in the person you're dating is scary, this episode will help! Showing interest when you're interested is key in developing a secure, healthy relationship in the early dating stage - even when things feel uncertain. I'm breaking down the appropriate, not-desper ... Show More
35m 17s
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Becca & Jason - The Tomato Baby Talk That Ended a Perfect First Date
Becca thought her date with Jason was going great — coffee, a farmer’s market, even haggling for honey. But when Jason suddenly ghosted her, she was left wondering what went wrong… until we called him. Let’s just say talking to produce like a baby might not be everyone’s love lan ... Show More
12m 17s