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Sep 2025
1h 1m

Performing Sexy vs Being Real EP 702

Steve V. Rodriguez
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On a new TAGS LIVE aka Talk About Gay Sex the live edition Host Stevie V and Co-host Kodi Maurice Doggette are back to discuss Sex Talk. The balance between sexual performance (online and offline) and authentic expression. Are we being our authentic selves in dating, online and in the bedroom or do we feel the need to perform due to our past lives, shame and ... Show More
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