This week, they ask: when did sex stop feeling shameful — and what changes once you enter your shameless era? From flirting and DMs to hookups, turn-ons, aging, confidence, and knowing exactly what you want, Steve and Kodi get into why gay men can become bolder, freer, and even sexier with age.
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Jul 2
The Roles We Play: Public Persona, Private Truth & Gay Sexual Honesty EP 772
Topics include: Public persona vs. private truth When outrage becomes a brand Why “nice in person” does not erase public harm The roles gay men learn to play for safety and acceptance Performing masculinity, confidence, and sexual experience Bedroom roles, fantasy, and authentici ... Show More
59m 38s
Jun 23
From Shame to Shameless EP 770
It’s Pride Week, and we’re talking about belonging — not just to a community, but to ourselves as gay men. We ask: When did sex stop feeling shameful and start feeling freeing? Steve, Kodi, and Sebastian explore how gay bars, Pride, hookups, leather spaces, chosen family, and que ... Show More
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Jul 2025
Safe Words & Spankings: Inside The Kinky Coaching Bedroom
Ready for a whip-smart convo that’ll tie you up in all the best ways? 😉 Miss Kay returns with her pal Stacy to talk about launching her “Top to Bottom Coaching” biz, and honey—it’s hot. They chat about newbies, naughty goals, kink confidence, and how exploring pleasure can unloc ... Show More
34m 45s
Jun 2025
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<p> We’re dropping in with an episode from <em>Sex Ed with DB</em>, a podcast all about inclusive, pleasure-focused sex ed. In this episode, host Danielle Bezalel sits down with Dr. Emily Nagoski — bestselling author of <em>Come As You Are</em> — to talk about what it really take ... Show More
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