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Sep 24
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Overthinking Is Stealing Your Success

Dr Amen Kaur
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Have you ever found yourself caught in an endless loop of replaying conversations, wondering if you said the right thing or how others perceived you? You’re not alone. Overanalyzing isn’t just an annoying habit. It is rooted in our evolutionary biology and neurological wiring.

When we replay social interactions, our brains are actually seeking validation and safety. MRI studies show that rejection activates the same regions of the brain as physical pain, while approval triggers dopamine, creating a temporary high that keeps us stuck in the cycle. From childhood, many of us, especially women, were conditioned to equate fitting in with safety. Be good. Follow the rules. Don’t stand out. Over time, our nervous systems learned to chase approval instead of trusting our own compass.

The cost is enormous. Overthinking drains our energy and keeps us stuck in the past or anxious about the future. Our real power is only available in the present moment. Research shows that successful people share one key trait: they care less about others’ opinions and act boldly from their inner vision.

In this episode of my self help podcast for women and growth minded listeners, I, Dr. Amen Kaur, share a simple three step framework to break free. First, catch yourself in the overthinking loop. Second, regulate your nervous system through breath and presence. Third, take one small action that affirms who you are in this moment.

I also share my mantra “So Be It,” which helps you embody the version of yourself who takes action. Clarity doesn’t come from thinking more. It comes from being who you truly are.

Whether you are navigating overthinking, seeking personal growth, or building the confidence to follow your dreams, this episode will give you the tools to move forward.

If you are ready to step into who you want to be, book a free consultation with me, Dr. Amen Kaur, and discover how to embody your vision and release the old conditioning that is keeping you stuck. The power is within you. So be it.

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