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Sep 23
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The High Cost of Unsafe Agile Retrospect...

Vasco Duarte, Agile Coach, Certified Scrum Master, Certified Product Owner
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Terry Haayema: The High Cost of Unsafe Agile Retrospectives

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"She was kind of like the mum for the team... she was actually the glue that held the team together."

Terry tells the story of a team that was functioning like a feature factory until a business analyst became their champion and "team mom." This BA supported everyone through agile transformation and helped build trust and healthy conflict. However, when she mentioned something in a retrospective that led to her being put on performance management and eventually leaving, the team rapidly self-destructed. They lost their sense of belonging and teamness, retreating back to working as independent professionals rather than collaborating. The story illustrates how leadership actions can instantly destroy weeks or months of trust-building work, and how critical psychological safety is for sustainable team performance.

For more critical points on how to be a great leader, check this episode with Captain David Marquet, a thought leader in the leadership space who wrote Turn the Ship Around! 

Featured Book of the Week: The Five Dysfunctions of a Team by Patrick Lencioni

Terry credits The Five Dysfunctions of a Team by Patrick Lencioni as massively influential in his career, particularly praising how Lencioni demonstrates that without trust as a foundation, teams cannot achieve anything else. The book's framework shows how lack of trust prevents healthy conflict, which prevents commitment, which prevents accountability, which prevents results. Terry found the way Lencioni illustrates these dysfunctions and their cascading effects to be incredibly valuable for understanding team dynamics and what's needed to build high-performing teams.

In this segment, we also refer to Agile Software Development with Scrum, by Schwaber and Beedle.

Self-reflection Question: What would happen to your team's dynamics if your most supportive, trust-building team member suddenly left tomorrow?

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About Terry Haayema 

Terry is an international Author, Speaker, Conference Host, Trainer, Facilitator, Mentor and Transformative Coach whose personal purpose is to help people see differently, so they find joy.

You can link with Terry Haayema on LinkedIn, or visit his website to learn more about his book

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