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Sep 18
11m 26s

Managing everyone else's moods

Trista Guertin
About this episode

Are you exhausted from managing your partner’s moods, smoothing every rough edge, and keeping everyone happy—even at your own expense?

In this episode of This Daring Adventure, I share a real story of a mom who planned her daughter’s birthday party around her husband’s dislike of parties—and ended up overwhelmed and guilty.

If you’ve ever felt responsible for your spouse’s happiness or your child’s every wish, this episode shows you how to stop people-pleasing and start trusting yourself.

What You’ll Discover in This Episode

  • The hidden cost of managing your partner’s moods or your family’s emotions
  • How overwhelm is created by the thought “I have to do it all”
  • Practical coaching steps to reclaim your time, energy, and confidence
  • Why disappointment isn’t a problem for your kids—it’s an important life skill

Resources & Next Steps

Book a Free 1:1 Coaching Consult – If you’re a motivated woman ready to create real change, schedule a powerful 45-minute call with me. We’ll identify what’s keeping you stuck and map out the exact plan to move forward. Book your call here.

Join You, Redefined – My coaching community where you’ll master self-coaching, set boundaries, end people-pleasing, and build unshakable confidence. In 90 days you’ll feel calm, clear, and in charge of your life. Join Here: You, Redefined.

Join me for my next free webinar Breaking Free from Stuck on September 24th at 2 PM EST. Sign up HERE and learn:

✔️ Why you’ve been stuck (it’s not what you think)

✔️ The 3 shifts that will help you finally move forward

✔️ How to start creating the life you’ve been craving — with clarity, confidence, and energy

These are the exact tools I use with my clients to help them stop spinning and start living. If you can't join us live, a relay will be shared.

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