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Sep 16
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259: Infidelity with Dr. Ellyn Bader

SHANE BIRKEL
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In this episode, Shane talks with Dr. Ellyn Bader about infidelity. Ellyn is an Author, Creator of The Developmental Model, Co-Founder of The Couples Institute, and one of the early founders of couples therapy itself. Hear how she created the concept of couples therapy, how the development of a couple’s relationship mirrors the development of a child, the top reasons people have an affair, how to start working with a couple that went through an infidelity, and what to do when a couple is stuck at any stage of infidelity work.

To learn more about Dr. Ellyn Bader and her trainings, visit:

CouplesInstitute.com

 

You can also listen to Ellyn on Episode 49 & Episode 153 of The Couples Therapist Couch

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