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Sep 9
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The 7 Stages of Play: Building Your Chil...

Erin Hyer
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Most parents think play begins with dolls and pretend kitchens — but the earliest stages of play start long before that… and missing them could mean missing crucial communication growth.

From nibbling on their fists, to peekaboo and pretend play -- your child’s first three years are full of small moments that build a BIG foundation. 

In this episode, Erin Hyer — speech-language pathologist and toddler specialist with 35+ years of experience — breaks down the 7 stages of play and shows how each stage fuels brain growth, language development, and social connection.

You’ll learn:

  • The difference between exploratory, functional, and symbolic play
  • Why gestures, imitation, and pretend games support speech development
  • How play builds critical thinking, imagination, and problem-solving skills
  • What to watch for as your toddler moves from play ➝ phrases ➝ full conversations

This is your roadmap for supporting communication and confidence from day one.

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👣 Next Step: Ready for more? Start small with The Tiny Challenge — a personalized way to create a learning-rich lifestyle for your child. Link in the show notes.

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Podcast Disclaimer:
This podcast is for educational purposes only and is not a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always consult your pediatrician or a qualified health provider with questions about your child’s development or health. The views shared are based on Erin Hyer’s professional experience and are intended to support informed parenting, not to replace individual consultation or care. Every child and family is unique—please use your discretion and consult trusted professionals when making decisions for your child.

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