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Aug 26
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Confidence is Built, Not Born: How to Fi...

Keara Callahan
About this episode

If you’ve ever said “I’m just not a confident person,” this episode is for you.

For years, I thought confidence was something you either had or you didn’t, reserved for the girls who never second-guessed themselves. But the truth? Confidence isn’t born, it’s built. In this episode, we’ll break down the myths that keep you stuck in self-doubt, unpack the neuroscience of self-trust, and walk through the exact steps to actually build real, grounded confidence. From keeping small promises to yourself, to exposing yourself to discomfort, to detaching from outcomes, this is the blueprint to finally stop shrinking, start trusting yourself, and show up as the most confident version of you.


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