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Aug 26
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211. Needing Nothing Attracts Everything...

Alissa Boyer
About this episode

In this episode, Alissa explores the powerful truth behind the phrase “needing nothing attracts everything.”

She shares how relying on external validation keeps us stuck in low self-worth—and how building confidence within creates a magnetic energy that draws the right people and opportunities into your life.

Questions answered within this episode:

  • What does “needing nothing attracts everything” really mean?
  • How does external validation hold back highly sensitive people?
  • What shifts when you stop needing others’ approval to feel good?
  • How can healing self-worth make you more magnetic in life and relationships?


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