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Aug 26
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How to Stop People-Pleasing + Face Your ...

Alyssa Nobriga
About this episode
Have you ever felt a quiet knowing that something in your life was off — and tried to ignore it because you feared what it might change?
 
In this episode, we talk about what happens when that quiet knowing becomes impossible to ignore. Amber Rae shares how meeting someone unexpectedly brought a truth she had been avoiding into sharp focus—a truth that, once faced, meant her marriage and the life she'd built would have to change. She opens up about telling her then-husband, navigating the fear and guilt that followed, and the backlash that came from choosing what felt true over what felt safe. We explore how to know if it's time to stay or go, the role of self-trust in big decisions, and why liberation is always a two-way street.
 
We also dive into breaking free from people-pleasing, setting boundaries that last, and working with emotions like guilt and anger without letting them run the show. Amber talks about reclaiming intimacy after years without it, voicing insecurities to deepen connection, and following what brings you alive in love, career, and life.
 
If you've ever wondered what might happen if you truly listened to yourself, this conversation will give you the courage and clarity to find out.
 

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Have you watched our previous episode with Dr. Jude Currivan? Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/SfxKHzUCSuQ

 

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AMBER RAE is an international bestselling author and speaker best known for books Choose Wonder Over Worry and The Answers Are Within You. She's also the creator of The Feelings Journal, a tool that transforms the way you engage with your emotions. Her writing and illustrations reach 9M people per month, and her work has been featured in publications such as The New York Times, NY Mag, TODAY, SELF, Fortune, Forbes, and Entrepreneur. As a keynote speaker and teacher, Amber has worked with companies such as Kate Spade, Meta, Microsoft, and TED. Amber lives in Brooklyn with her husband and son.

 

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GUEST LINKS
Website: https://www.amberrae.com
Instagram: @heyamberrae
Buy now: 'Loveable: One Woman's Path from Good to Free' by Amber Rae: https://www.amberrae.com
 

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