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Purposeful Parenting to Build Strong, Re...

Larry Hagner
About this episode

In this special father-son episode of the Dad Edge Podcast, I sit down with my son, Ethan, to continue our August series on raising boys into strong, capable men. Together, we dive into the real challenges young men face today and the lessons that shape character, responsibility, and confidence.

 

Ethan opens up about what he’s learning through work, relationships, and personal growth, while I share insights on how fathers can guide without controlling. We discuss resilience, accountability, and the importance of choosing the right path—even when it’s difficult. This conversation is raw, relatable, and packed with wisdom for both dads and sons who want to grow together.

 


 

TIMELINE SUMMARY

[0:00] - Welcome to our August father-son series

[2:10] - Ethan’s reflections on independence and early adulthood

[5:25] - Why accountability is the key to long-term success

[8:41] - Lessons from failure and how to bounce back stronger

[12:03] - How to balance freedom with responsibility

[15:37] - Why building grit matters more than chasing comfort

[19:10] - Navigating friendships and the power of influence

[23:46] - What intentional living looks like as a young man

[28:04] - Handling setbacks without losing confidence

[32:19] - Why fathers need to lead by example, not just advice

[36:55] - The role of gratitude in keeping perspective

[40:28] - Ethan’s biggest lessons so far in work and life

[44:12] - Final reflections on manhood, growth, and legacy

 


 

5 KEY TAKEAWAYS

 

1. Accountability Creates Growth

The willingness to own your choices and mistakes is what separates boys from men—it’s the foundation of maturity.

2. Resilience Is Built Through Struggle

Failure is not the end but the classroom. Every setback is an opportunity to learn grit and perseverance.

3. Freedom Without Responsibility Leads to Chaos

True independence isn’t doing whatever you want—it’s learning to carry the weight of your decisions.

4. Influence Shapes Identity

The people you surround yourself with will either pull you forward or drag you down. Choose wisely.

5. Gratitude Keeps You Grounded

No matter how tough life gets, practicing gratitude helps you stay centered, focused, and motivated to keep moving forward.

 

 


 

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