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Aug 18
40m 50s

seasonal transitions aka goodbye summert...

cara and leo
About this episode

this episode is genuinely a girly catch up call where we yap about how we are feeling, how we want to try make the most out of the rest of summer (but also find ways to live slowly - which is something we CAN'T WAIT to have in autumn). we also talk about our recent reads, morning habits & our recent thoughts on alcohol/being sober.

we also end this by giving advice to one of you lovely listeners <3

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