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Oct 2024
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#167 The Uncomfortable Truth About Being...

Shivani Pau
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Rhona Eskander is back on the podcast but this time to talk about the truths about being engaged. Join us in this weeks episode as we dive deep into the realities and pressures of engagement!


From the excitement of saying "yes" to the unexpected challenges that can arise, we explore what it truly means to be engaged.


What we cover

My Engagement story

How long should you wait until you get engaged?

Is the ring important?

How much should you spend on an engagement ring?

Should you have kids at your wedding?

Jealousy in engagement

Pressure of having a premium wedding

Setting boundaries for your wedding


Whether you're newly engaged, planning to be, or just curious about the journey, this episode offers mine and Rhona's perspectives and relatable experiences. Watch the episode for a mix of laughter, wisdom, and honest conversations about love and commitment!


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