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Aug 15
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the ULTIMATE guide to friendships | advi...

Tam Kaur
About this episode
friendships are harder than relationships sometimes… and no one talks about it. this is the ✨ULTIMATE ✨guide to friendships — the advice i wish i knew earlier to build real, aligned, and lasting connections. we’re diving into red flags, green flags, setting boundaries, and why so many of us settle for surface-level friendships. if you’ve ever felt misunderstood, drained, or unsure of your standards, this video is for you 🤍

♡ WHAT'S IN THIS VIDEO:

  • 00:00 Introduction
  • 01:50 Chapter 1: What to Avoid in Friendships
  • 10:29 Chapter 2: Setting Your Standards
  • 19:36 Chapter 3: Being a Great Friend
  • 26:41 Conclusion

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*my intro and outro music was made by the incredible @raaginder!

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