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Aug 12

12m 11s

The Difference 3 Seconds Can Make

FOCUS ON THE FAMILY

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If you're ever mad with your spouse, it's good to pause before saying something you regret later. Greg and Erin Smalley talk about the value of pausing before you explode in a marriage argument. Also, Ryan Frederick joins Jim Daly to address how a husband can respond well when he's upset with his wife.

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