logo
episode-header-image
About this episode
I used to think peace was something I could force. If I just prayed harder, thought better, or pushed through, surely I’d feel normal again. But even in quiet rooms and calm moments, my body was buzzing. I couldn’t shake the edge, the restlessness, the sense that something was off. And for a while, I thought that meant I was the problem. But I’ve come to understand what felt like “too much” was actually my body asking for safety. In this episode, I'm talking about nervous system dysregulation, and why feeling overwhelmed doesn’t make you broken - it makes you a human who’s ready to heal. 

Rooting for you,
Jessica
 
Click here to get 30% off my Untangle Your Thoughts program today AND get access to my course Biblical Framework to Overcome Emotional Eating for FREE!

Or book your free 20-minute consultation here!

Email me at >> jessica@jessicahottle.com

The information shared in this podcast is for educational and informational purposes only and is not intended as medical or clinical advice. While we discuss mental health topics, this is not a substitute for professional care. Please consult with a qualified healthcare provider for advice specific to your situation.
Up next
Yesterday
How to Stay Regulated When Holiday Emotions Run High
<div>Sometimes the holidays feel less like a celebration and more like emotional survival. For me, it’s been a tender season. It's been one year since my mom passed, and the emotions still run deep. Maybe you’ve felt that too - sadness surfacing when you were expecting joy, or ov ... Show More
11m 28s
Nov 24
When You Want Change but Don't Know How to Start
<div>If you’ve been wanting change but feel unsure where to begin, this episode will speak straight to your heart. So many women feel stuck in spiraling thoughts, fear, overwhelm, and old patterns that keep repeating, even when they’re trying so hard to move forward. <br> <br> In ... Show More
3m 44s
Nov 19
What to Do When You’re Ready to Give Up
<div>There was a season where I kept thinking, “If I could just hold everything together, maybe I wouldn’t fall apart.” But when things didn’t go the way I wanted - when someone pulled away, when life got messy - it broke something in me. I didn’t want to try anymore. I wanted to ... Show More
13m 30s
Recommended Episodes
Sep 19
Expand Your Perspective & Improve Your Mental Health With a Simple Therapy Tool
<p><strong>The APP has arrived! </strong><a href="https://studio.com/apps/rebecca" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://studio.com/apps/rebecca</a> </p><p>If you like the podcast, you will love the Everyday Calm app. It is a daily program that teaches simple skills t ... Show More
9m 52s
Jul 2023
Anxiety and Depersonalization / Derealization (Ep. 020)
<p><strong>Depersonalization and Derealization - AKA &quot;DP/DR&quot;</strong></p> <p>This week Drew and Josh get into the nuts and bolts of this most common anxiety and stress response. This is the sense that you&#39;re not real, that you&#39;re detached from yourself, or that ... Show More
38m 18s
Jan 2025
256 | 3 Breath Prayers To Reduce Anxiety & Stress: A Christian Mindfulness Practice To Hear From God & Improve Your Mental Health
This is Week 3 of our 2025 REFRESH!Today, you&#39;ll hear about:-what breath prayer is & why I love it-simple ways to increase your focus skills-3 simple breath prayers you can try out today-simple tools to start hearing your voice & God&#39;s voice more clearlyI hope you enjoy!X ... Show More
12m 16s
Jan 2025
Guided Meditation for Anxiety Relief: Find Calm and Balance Today
<p>Discover a transformative way to relieve anxiety and restore balance with guided meditation. This session offers:</p><p><strong>Body Scan Meditation</strong>: Learn to release physical tension and connect with the present moment.</p><p><strong>Gratitude Practices</strong>: Shi ... Show More
15m 24s
Sep 12
How to Feel your Feelings: Step-by-Step Exercise and full debrief w/ Thomas McConkie, Mindfulness
<p>Together we're going to do a Meditation for Emotions with Mindfulness Instructor Thomas McConkie. We're going to talk about how to work with the embodiment of emotions and how to create space for all our feelings, even the ones that are painful or frightening. You can learn mo ... Show More
43m 23s
Sep 1
When Shame Shows Up; A Therapy Method For Inner Peace When Doing Personal Growth Work
<p><strong>The APP has arrived! </strong><a href="https://studio.com/apps/rebecca" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://studio.com/apps/rebecca</a> </p><p>If you like the podcast, you will love the Everyday Calm app. It is a daily program that teaches simple skills t ... Show More
7m 36s
Jul 2025
268 | 3 Psychology Backed Steps to Rewire Your Brain & Step Into Your God Given Confidence & Identity
ACTIVATE: THE MEMBERSHIP |The online community & resource hub where faith, mental wellness & nervous system regulation come together to help you conquer overwhelm, create daily healthy habits & start living your best life.Join ACTIVATE here!SUBMIT A QUESTION TO THE PODCAST |Ask D ... Show More
9m 14s
Aug 8
Make Difficult Conversations Easier With A Therapy Based Method for Empathic, Conflict Avoidant People
<p><strong>The APP has arrived! </strong><a href="https://studio.com/apps/rebecca" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://studio.com/apps/rebecca</a> </p><p>If you like the podcast, you will love the Everyday Calm app. It is a daily program that teaches simple skills t ... Show More
13m 52s
Jul 2024
Prayers about Biblical Meditation
Abide is your safe and still place to connect with God. Pray on topics like anxiety, depression, and illness that are relevant to you. Pray along with prayers about seeking God through biblical mediation. Center yourself on the truth in God's word about finding stillness and soli ... Show More
7m 33s
May 2025
OMG! Nothing Works For My Anxiety!!! | EP 317
<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2271214/open_sms">Send in a question or comment via text.</a></p><p>If you&apos;ve reached the point of declaring &quot;I&apos;ve tried everything and nothing works for my anxiety,&quot; this episode is s ... Show More
23m 47s