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Jul 31
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Why ‘Always Be Closing’ Is Killing Your ...

THE ART OF CHARM
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If you dread networking events, this episode explains why — and how to flip the script. AJ and Johnny break down the toxic "always be closing" mindset and show how high performers actually build deep connections that lead to real opportunity. Hear the story of Ryan, a client who 10x’d his sales by ditching the pitch and leading with value. You’ll learn how t ... Show More
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