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Jul 29
30m 36s

Textual Healing: The New Way to Text and...

Connell Barrett
About this episode
Do you struggle with texting women? Do you feel like you’re always one boring message away from getting ghosted? Dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett reveals his powerful new texting framework to make your messages magnetic: “Play, Play, Play, Pull the Trigger.” You’ll learn how to confidently flirt over text so you get a lot more dates. Plus, you’ll hear how one woman went from rejecting Connell to asking HIM out—just from a short text exchange.

Episode Highlights Include:

01:15: Connell Sings! (Be Very Afraid)

02:35: The “Play, Play, Play, Pull the Trigger” Texting Framework Explained

03:45: First She Rejected Connell, Then She Chased HIM for a Date

11:19: What Most Guys Get Wrong About Texting (and How to Fix It)

17:13: Yes, Good Texting is Learnable—Here’s Why

21:57: Connell Walks You Through a Flirty Text Exchange that Led to a Date


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