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Jul 2025
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COMMON: The Untold Story of How Heartbre...

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Do you struggle with self-doubt sometimes?

What helped you get through a tough emotional season?

Today, Jay sits down with award-winning rapper, actor, and activist Common for a deeply moving live conversation recorded at the legendary Chicago Theater. Known for his poetic lyrics and conscious artistry, Common opens up about his journey from a young boy on the South Side of Chicago to becoming an Academy Award, Emmy, and three-time Grammy winner. In this intimate conversation they explore the emotional and spiritual work behind his success. From heartbreak and rejection to healing and purpose, Common shares what it really took to become the man he is today.

Common shares personal stories of growth and transformation, starting with his childhood dream of becoming a professional basketball player and how he eventually found his voice through writing and music. He reflects on the moments that shaped his purpose, including the story of Emmett Till, which moved him to live with more intention. Common also opens up about the heartbreak that forced him to confront the ways he was dimming his light, and the daily spiritual practices that help him stay grounded today, like reading scripture, praying, practicing gratitude, and staying active.

Jay and Common also dive into what it means to be vulnerable in hip-hop, why self-love is the foundation for every other kind of love, and how trusting the divine plan can turn disappointment into direction. They explore how trusting a bigger plan can help turn setbacks into clarity, and share personal insights on setting boundaries, building real friendships, and staying connected to your highest energy.

In this interview, you’ll learn:

How to Transform Pain into Purpose

How to Stop Dimming Your Light in Relationships

Why Vulnerability is a Superpower in Creativity

How to Build Daily Practices for Spiritual Alignment

How to Trust God’s Plan, Even When It’s Painful

How to Attract Friendships that Match Your Frequency

Whether you're moving through heartbreak, looking for direction, or trying to reconnect with your purpose, this conversation is a powerful reminder that your story matters and you're right where you need to be.

With love and gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Introduction

01:13 Live In Chicago

02:15 Common Before the Fame

06:11 Jay On His Childhood & Upbringing

06:44 Pain As A Catalyst for Creativity 

09:01 Proximity To Greatness Is A Motivation

10:11 Living Our Dreams To The Fullest

13:49 How to Trust God's Plan 

16:46 Trust That There’s a Bigger Plan

22:19 Transitioning Between Careers

30:15 Attracting & Building New Friendships 

36:18 Everyday Routine For Body & Mind Care 

40:40 A Poem From the Audience 

43:21 My New Favourite Colour

48:49 Pushing Through Fear As A Motivator

53:33 Letting Go and Letting God

55:26 Common On Final Five 

Episode Resources:

Common | Website

Common | YouTube

Common | Instagram

Common | X

Common | Facebook

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