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Jul 2025
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self-hatred & self-sabotage: to be a wom...

SEPHY AND WING
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podmothers sephy & wing enter the chat: spiralling on self-awareness v. self-criticism, the fear of failure v. fear of success, and being so smart it becomes stupid. ✷

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