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Jul 15
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The Neuroscience of Attraction: How to R...

Connell Barrett
About this episode
Ever wonder, “Am I enough to find love?” Harvard-educated physician Ali Binazir has a hopeful answer! The man behind the “Trillion Sided Dice” theory of existence (seriously, it’ll break your brain) shares his own dating journey—still a virgin at 23—and the breakthroughs that changed everything. Plus, Binazir, co-author of the bestselling book “The 5 Hidden Love Questions,” explains why approach anxiety is hardwired into your brain, how to flip limiting beliefs, and reveals his charisma formula to help you become more magnetic.

You’re About to Learn:

01:14: The Trillion-Sided Dice Theory: Why Your Existence Is Literally a Miracle

06:22: How Gratitude Can Destroy Your Fear of Dating Rejection

13:23: The 5 Hidden Love Questions that Sabotage Your Romantic Life

20:31: The Science Behind Your Fear of Approaching—and How to Start Meeting Women

27:59: How Dr. Ali Went from a Virgin at Age 23 to Dating Success

41:58: The Neuroscience of Happiness: Why Being Happy Attracts Love

56:07: The 30-Second Charisma Formula to Create Attraction

LEARN MORE ABOUT DR. ALI BINAZIR: http://TaoOfDating.com and http://HappinessEngineering.com

GET ‘THE 5 HIDDEN LOVE QUESTIONS’ ON AMAZON

FREE TRAINING:Get Dr. Ali’s “Super Charisma: How to Be a Transformative Speaker” course free at http://TaoOfDating.com

TO TAKE DR. ALI’s ‘TUNE UP YOUR LIFE’ COURSE: Email him at DrAliB@TaoOfDating.com or DrAli@HappinessEngineering.com

FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO FIND OUT IF DATING COACHING CAN HELP YOU ATTRACT YOUR DREAM GIRLFRIEND: Datingtransformation.com
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