Has anyone ever doubted something you were excited about?
Have you ever felt judged for trying something different?
Today, Jay opens up about one of the most painful yet common experiences: feeling unsupported, unseen, or misunderstood by the people closest to us. He unpacks the psychology behind why others often don’t believe in us, highlighting the “fals ... Show More
Oct 7
Sabrina Zohar: How to Stop Chasing People Who Don’t Want You
Jay sits down with dating and relationship coach Sabrina Zohar to unpack why we chase the familiar over the safe, how childhood attachment shapes adult dating patterns, and the real difference between boundaries and walls. Together they dig into anxious-avoidant dynamics, chemist ... Show More
1h 26m
Oct 2
4 Things Confident People Tell Themselves Every Day
Jay shares four mantras for the moments we need them most, whether you’re struggling to find hope, learning to trust yourself, opening yourself up to new opportunities, or simply trying to feel more present. Through personal stories, from a decades-old journal entry written by hi ... Show More
32m 27s
Aug 2025
Most People Get Confidence Completely Wrong...
Want to feel more confident in your everyday life, work, or relationships? In this special compilation episode, I’m sharing 5 powerful confidence lessons shared by past guests — insights that I wish I heard years ago. These aren’t your typical surface-level tips. Each one is a mi ... Show More
21m 47s
Oct 2022
Workout: Overcome Doubt & Division
Even as motivated strivers, we can get caught in self-doubt and judgment of others. In this episode, workout to motivational music and discover ways to transmute doubt and judgment into self-confidence and unity. “Most people struggle in their life because when they hear doubt, t ... Show More
10m 19s
Nov 2024
206. From Fearful to Fierce: How to Build Unshakable Self-Belief
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style= "font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif;"> In today's episode we tackle the habit of seeking approval. We all know the relief and reassurance that come with a pat on the back from a boss, client, or friend. But when ... Show More
12m 59s
Nov 2025
Give Me 15 Minutes and I’ll Make You Dangerously Confident
What if confidence isn’t something you’re born with but something you build? In this episode, I explain why most people struggle to believe in themselves and how to change it. You’ll learn how action, not belief, creates confidence, and how keeping small promises to yourself rewi ... Show More
16m 26s