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Jun 30
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(Matt Monday): It Took Me 38 Years to Re...

MATTHEW HUSSEY
About this episode

In my 30s, I realized some truths about relationships that took me years to really learn. I used to believe in a lot of romantic myths. But in this week’s new episode, I share the hard-earned truth that certainty in love isn’t something you find on day one—it’s something you have to decide to build and invest in. 

You’ll also learn the difference between “settling for” and “settling on” someone, and why the latter is the key to creating a love that lasts.

If you’ve ever felt paralyzed by the fear of choosing the wrong person, or overwhelmed by your search for “the one,” this is the mindset shift you need.

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