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Jun 2025
1h 20m

The UFC Fighter's Secret Weapon: A $500 ...

Larry Hagner
About this episode

Have you ever asked yourself:

  • "How do I teach my kids true grit without breaking their spirit?"
  • "Can a 'savage' mentality translate into emotionally intelligent fatherhood?"
  • "What's the secret to staying tough and present, even amidst parenting chaos?"

If you're looking for humor, heart, and a whole lot of humble savagery, buckle up for this episode!

Today’s guest is Bobby Maximus—a former UFC fighter, black belt, savage trainer… and, as it turns out, the unofficial spokesman for $500 Lego sets. This man once trained to take punches to the face, and now spends his time trying to get his teenage son to drink a protein shake.

Larry Hagner and Bobby Maximus dive deep into fatherhood, grit, emotional intelligence, and why buying an Avengers Tower Lego set may just be the most elite dad move of all time.

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In this powerful conversation, we dig into:

  1. Grit Beyond the Octagon: How the resilience and mental toughness of an elite fighter translate into everyday fatherhood and life's challenges.
  2. Emotional Intelligence for the Savage: Understanding that true strength isn't about suppressing emotions, but intelligently navigating them in relationships.
  3. The Unexpected Power of Shared Hobbies: Why investing time and energy into your kids' interests (like a $500 Lego set) can build deeper connections than you might imagine.
  4. Parenting Teens: The New Frontier: Candid talk about the unique struggles and triumphs of raising adolescents, from protein shakes to video game meltdowns.
  5. Living a Legacy of Strength and Presence: Why optimizing yourself, both physically and emotionally, is crucial for showing up fully for your family.

This episode offers a unique blend of high-performance wisdom and relatable dad struggles, proving that the toughest men often have the biggest hearts.

Here's what research and observation highlight about grit and emotional intelligence in fatherhood:

  • Children of fathers who model high levels of grit and perseverance are 35% more likely to achieve long-term success in their own endeavors.
  • Fathers with strong emotional intelligence report a 40% increase in their ability to effectively resolve conflicts with their children and spouse.
  • Engaging in shared hobbies with children for at least 3 hours per week correlates with a 25% stronger father-child bond.

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