We often rush to offer solutions when a loved one expresses emotional distress, not because we don't care, but because it's uncomfortable to witness pain—both theirs and our own. While advice and plans may seem helpful, skipping over empathy and validation can make others feel dismissed or misunderstood. In this episode, the hosts unpack why we default to fi ... Show More
Yesterday
If I Have To Ask, It Doesn't Count
Why does it feel so disappointing to ask for what you want? In this episode, we unpack the hidden belief that “if I have to ask, it doesn’t count” — and how that mindset turns simple needs (compliments, celebration, affection) into silent resentment. We explore the shame, fear of ... Show More
53m 34s
Feb 23
Why Everyone Thinks Their Partner Is a Narcissist
When someone says, “I think my partner is a narcissist,” they’re usually not chasing a diagnosis—they’re trying to make sense of a relationship that feels controlling, confusing, and painful. This episode slows it way down and compares narcissism with insecure attachment patterns ... Show More
53m 35s
Nov 2024
169 - How To Navigate The Holidays
<p>Happy Thanksgiving! With Thanksgiving kicking off the holiday season, we are entering a season of life where we are busier than normal, more stressed, around food more often, and out of normal routines. </p>
<p>In this episode we do our annual talk about how you can navigate t ... Show More
59m 23s
Jan 2025
Re-release: Toolkit to Navigate Bad Days
<p>As we step into the new year, we recognize that this has been a challenging time for many. Whether you’re navigating personal struggles, grieving a loss, or feeling the impact of the devastating Southern California fires, we want you to know that you’re not alone—we’re here to ... Show More
59m 9s