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“I should be farther along by now.” Have you ever thought that? Like there’s an invisible clock ticking and you’re behind - emotionally, spiritually, even physically. Maybe you’ve done all the right things: prayed, journaled, listened to worship… but inside, you still feel raw. Worn out. Maybe even ashamed for not feeling better yet.

Friend, hear this: healing doesn’t have a deadline. And your progress isn’t measured by how quickly you bounce back. God isn’t frustrated with your pace - He’s present in your process. Let’s talk about what emotional pain really does to your heart and how Jesus meets you right there.

Rooting for you,
Jessica

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