This week, we're diving into what happens when a partner asks you to change, whether it's a small behavioral change or a big fundamental or values change. Regardless of what kind, change can be difficult, for both the one asking for change and the one being asked to change. We're going to discuss the feelings that arise when being asked to change as well as ... Show More
Apr 7
574 - How to Make Calendaring Not Suck
Today we're covering a topic that causes a lot of friction in a lot of relationships: scheduling. Sometimes, coordinating time with people we love - whether it's family, partners, or friends - feels impossible. And it turns out, it actually is impossible to do perfectly. We're go ... Show More
1h 10m
Feb 2025
Everything is Changing & We’re a Little Scared… Sharing Stories & Updates We’ve Haven’t Shared yet
In today’s episode Kaleb and I open up about past stories, Kaleb’s dream to go to law school, potentially moving, and MORE! I hope you guys enjoy this episode and the NEW podcast rebrand! We have some exciting guests coming up this season! ORDER JEANINE’S BOOK HAPPY & HEALTHY or ... Show More
1 h
May 2025
How To Know When To Call It Quits In A Relationship
In this episode, the hosts unpack the complicated process of knowing when it's time to leave a relationship, highlighting the emotional risks, attachment patterns, and fears of regret that often make the decision so difficult. They emphasize that while love and good qualities may ... Show More
48m 36s
Jan 2024
EP68: Understanding, Navigating, Embracing Change
<p>Hey, folks! Ready for some change talk? Ever wonder why change feels both exhilarating and daunting? Today on This Changes Everything, Sarah and Therapy Jeff will unpack that rollercoaster of emotions and mental gymnastics involved when facing change—planned or unexpected.</p> ... Show More
1h 8m
Oct 2023
"It's Always F*cking Safety!" (Q&A Session)
<p>I get together with another Codependency Alchemy member to talk about fears around something we don't completely understand, and how it always's comes back to safety. We talk about embracing sexuality, fears around being sexualized, being in a state of fear, and more ... Show More
35m 14s
Dec 2023
80: 5 things I'd tell my younger self before entering partnership with my now-husband
I entered my relationship "knowing" Preston was the one... but then, years in, I stopped knowing anymore! In this episode, I speak to the younger version of myself that was struggling horribly with relationship anxiety. Some of you are in this place and I want to remind you that ... Show More
42m 25s
<p>To move forward, sometimes the most powerful thing you can do is pause and take stock of how far you’ve come. </p><p><a href='https://livewithoutborders.substack.com/p/youve-changed'>Read the article</a>.</p><p>***</p><p>I’m your host, Sarah Mikutel, a <a href='https://sarahmi ... Show More