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Jun 9
1h 19m

Terry Real: Relationships, Trauma, and I...

RICK HANSON, PH.D., FORREST HANSON
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What gets in the way of truly intimate, healthy relationships…and what can we do about it? In this moving episode, Forrest is joined by renowned couples therapist Terry Real to explore how we can build deeper, more meaningful connections. They unpack key concepts from Relational Life Therapy, including the shift from “me” to “us,” the difference between th ... Show More
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