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May 28
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Soft Girl vs. Girlboss: The High Perform...

Samantha Daily
About this episode

What if you’re too lazy to hustle… but too driven to rest? In this spicy solo episode, we’re diving into the emotional whiplash of being a feminine high performer in a world that loves to slap a label on your lifestyle. 

Is it ambition... or just internalized hustle culture?
Is the soft girl trend freeing… or lowkey performative?
And can we actually build a soft life with passive income without grinding first?

Answers to these questions & more so hit play to join the convo.

We chat:

  • 1:00 — The paradox of the feminine high performer
  • 2:23 — Is ambition truly a dirty word?
  • 3:13 — The more space I give myself the lazier I get — why I don’t fit the soft girl archetype
  • 15:21 — What if hustle culture and soft life are both lowkey scams?
  • 20:12 — The soft girl & girl boss archetypes explained: are you having an identity crisis or just being a woman?
  • 24:22 — Why do you keep swinging between burnout and boredom?
  • 35:00 — The convo no one’s having: the secret to finding your middle ground between go mode and rest.
  • 38:02 — Everyone’s selling passive income like a dream… but here’s what they’re not telling you.
  • 43:01 — The real reason I want to work so much
  • 46:12 — How to tell if your dreams are yours or just conditioning in a pretty bow
  • 52:17 — What if your happiness isn’t in the hustle… or the softness?

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