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May 2025
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442 - Repeat These 2 Words to Reinvent Y...

Marie Forleo
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What if two simple words could change how you see yourself - and your future? In this powerful peisode, Jonathan Van Ness shares the surprising phrase that helped them stop spiraling self-talk and start living with purpose, creativity, and courage. From overcoming people-pleasing to embracing their natural talents, JVN gets real about how they learned to let go of fear, find their voice, and thrive as their most authentic self. 

Jonathan Van Ness is a New York Times bestselling author, comedian, host of Getting Curious, founder of JVN Hair, and beloved star of Queer Eye. Their new young adult novel Let Them Stare is a joyful celebration of queer identity, resilience, and possibility. 

WHAT'S COVERED IN THIS EPISODE:

02:50 - "Crop failure!" The 2-word mantra that changed everything
05:50 - Why fear means you're doing it right
09:07 - Behind the scenes of JVN's creative process
15:07 - Why going home could be the boldest move you make
18:02 - Finding the courage to be disliked
21:01 - Queer Eye secrets: how the show (and cast) evolved
24:05 - The hardest parts of helping others on-camera
27:14 - Internet fame vs. real life: JVN gets honest
31:21 - The unexpected grief that caught them off guard
36:51 - Healing, heartbreak, and the power of showing up
41:54 - How JVN built a team that actually supports them
44:45 - From impulsive shopper to financially free
51:51 - JVN's evolution as a comedian - and what's next

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LET THEM STARE: Grab your copy of JVN's new book → https://amzn.to/3FjGFHI 

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