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May 2025
34m 49s

Is that really you inside your head?

PAUL COLAIANNI
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Our inner critic can be our own worst enemy. Knowing where that voice comes from and if what it's saying is actually true can mean the difference between your happiness and your sanity - hopefully you get to keep both! 
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