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May 20
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EP439 – The Number One Mistake People Ma...

Dr. Nazanin Moali, Ph.d, Psychology Of Sex | Couple Therapy | Sex Education
About this episode

Welcome to Episode 439 of the Sexology Podcast! Today, I'm thrilled to have a panel of leading sex therapists and relationship and intimacy experts from around the world. They’ll discuss the most common mistakes people make in the bedroom and how to address them. A big thank you to Dr. Emily JameaAriel AnderssenDr. Lori BisbeyCatherine AumanCandia RaquelDr. Stephanie BathurstDr. Avrum Weiss, and Elliot Katz.


In this episode, we explore the habits that often go unnoticed but can have a lasting impact on sexual satisfaction and emotional connection. You'll hear a variety of insights, from the importance of non-verbal communication and slowing down intimacy, to the roles of sensuality, presence, and emotional security. Each expert brings their unique lens, offering practical tips and surprising truths drawn from decades of experience.


Whether you're in a long-term relationship or just looking to deepen your sexual self-awareness, this episode offers honest, shame-free advice. From addressing awkward moments with humor to reframing masculinity and creating space for meaningful conversation, this is an invitation to rethink how we approach pleasure, intimacy, and connection.


In this episode, you will hear:


·      Importance Of Reading Non-Verbal Cues

·      How Sincere Appreciation Boosts Intimacy

·      The Need To Prioritize Presence Over Performance

·      Why Slowing Down Can Deepen Pleasure

·      Connection Between Excitement And Blocked Orgasms

·      How Playfulness Can Ease Bedroom Awkwardness

·      The Role Of Masculinity In Creating Safety

·      Why Scheduling A Sexy Talk Matters

·      How Porn Has Shaped Misleading Expectations

·      Using Sensuality To Awaken The Body’s Reflexes

 

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