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May 2025
54m 20s

yOu’Re nOboDy UnTiL yOu’Re tAlKeD aBoUt

Christina Kirkman & Studio71
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i crashed out on the internet. my alt title was “crash course on crashing out.” boundaries SUCK. guilt is a sign that you’re growing. “idc what people think” is sexy until your nervous system gets involved. teach people how to treat you. did she just say “waft your own farts???” the algorithm favors chaos. art and boundaries. growth and relatability. success ... Show More
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