Matt & Abby react to wild relationship stories from Reddit — from hidden debt and surprise divorces to cringey confessions and tough family drama. Some are hilarious, some are heavy, and all of them will leave you thinking.
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Feb 4
Addressing your assumptions about us
Matt & Abby respond to the assumptions people make about their marriage, money, parenting, and life online. From sex, swearing, and social media, nothing is off the table. It’s honest, self-aware, and way more nuanced than the internet thinks. This episode is sponsored by LMNT & ... Show More
1h 1m
Jan 28
Mark Manson: The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck
Mark Manson joins Matt & Abby for a thoughtful, honest conversation about modern self-help, personal responsibility, and what actually leads to a meaningful life. They talk marriage as a “long conversation,” the dangers of toxic positivity, dating apps, friendship, death, and how ... Show More
1h 17m
Jan 21
A messy conversation about divorce
Matt & Abby have an honest, thoughtful conversation about divorce, what the data actually says, and the seasons of marriage that tend to be the hardest. They talk through common reasons marriages struggle, indicators that often get ignored, and why they still believe in marriage, ... Show More
1h 5m
Oct 2025
Leaving a Good Relationship for the Right Reasons (a Lesson in Choosing Yourself), with Margot Lee
<p>#216. Margot Lee is an OG YouTube creator and founder of No Particular Order. After moving to London for her longtime boyfriend, she faced one of life’s hardest truths: sometimes two people can love each other deeply and want completely different futures. In this conversation, ... Show More
1 h
Mar 2025
solicited advice on: having a different love language than your partner, dealbreakers vs. preferences, jealousy in friendships, & why situationships hurt so much
230: Two bff's *who have no idea what they're doing* giving you solicited advice on (mainly) dating and relationships. Drea came back for another episode & we're answering a few of your Q's this week - everything from: the difference between venting vs. gossiping, when ghosting i ... Show More
59m 8s
Feb 2025
Oversharing About Wedding Planning, Mental Breakdowns, Keeping the Spark Alive, & More
<p>#185. In a rare turn of events, we are doing a Q&A episode today. You’re being nosey, I’m (happily) oversharing about all things wedding, relationships, mental health, & more. This episode is meant to make you feel a little better about yourself as I share how not-toge ... Show More
50m 55s
Dec 2024
Family, Feels, & Finding Myself
In this week’s solo episode, Ken takes us on an emotional and hilarious journey as she reflects on her recent Cabo trip with her mom. From heartfelt gratitude for her mother’s sacrifices to the chaos of navigating their differences, Kennedy dives into the complex dynamics of thei ... Show More
41m 18s