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May 2025
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Avoid Emotional Traps: Key Mistakes to P...

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Are you making choices that lead you astray? The ancient Stoics revealed a powerful strategy for decision-making that can guide you away from pitfalls. In this episode, explore a unique Stoic perspective: focus on what to avoid rather than what not to do. These enduring principles will enable you to pinpoint and sidestep hidden traps and common mistakes. Dis ... Show More
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