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May 8
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121: Dark Eroticism: Piss Play, Kink Psy...

Elle and Vee
About this episode

In this episode, Elle and Vee chat with Priestess Francesca about kink, piss, and the juicy world of dark desires. Bring your curiosity and leave your shame at the door.


What is Dark Erotiscm? (3:04)


Shadow Work: “fill the hole where shame used to be with love and acceptance.” (10:09)


Taboo Kinks: Why are we afraid of our kinks and how can we approach them? (13:57)


How can you start exploring your dark erotic desires? What to check for before you begin on your kink journey. (17:58)


Where do turn-ons come from? The psychology behind why we desire what we do. The eroticsm of our traumatic experiences: recreate or obliterate. (23:40)


Vee’s first erotic piss play scene! (28:55)


Unpacking Pee Play: How do you find where the pleasure lies? (34:52)


Solo Piss Play: drinking your own golden nectar. (39:49)


How to spin toilet play differently depending on the energy of the scene (worship, degradation, objectification). (40:56)


Psychology behind degradation play, and the power behind Priestess Francesca’s Scat Play Scene. (43:09)


Discomfort is not always productive: growth vs guardianship of yourself. (48:26)


Freak School. (55:09)


Erotic Alchemy. (56:34)


Priestess Francesca Links:

Website

Instagram

Free Masterclass!


Source Information: 

  1. Homosexuality in the DSM: While homosexuality was formally removed from the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual (DSM) of Mental Disorders in 1973, it wasn't until DSM-5 (which mobilized it's task force of 13 work groups in 2007 to focus on various disorder areas) that all diagnostic categories pertaining to sexual orientation were removed.  Many scholars and advocacy groups believe that only this can be considered "complete declassification" of non-heterosexual sexual orientations as mental disorders.
  2. BDSM in the DSM: Thanks to tremendous efforts by the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom (NCSF) the American Psychiatric Association (APA) announced in 2010 that it would be changing the diagnostic codes for BDSM in the next edition of the DSM (formally published in 2013 and integrated into practice in the years that followed). 
  3. Trans Porn Statistical Analysis by State (USA): In 2022, Lawsuit.org issued statistical analysis to understand the love for transgender related porn by scraping daily Google search trend data, segmenting by DMA (metro area), and comparing search volume to both 2020 election voting trends, and public opinions about LGBT rights. "The data tells a tragic tale of self-loathing closet cases, Republicans who privately get off sexually to trans folks, while publicly trying to remove trans peoples’ rights and stoking hate against them." You can dig into their data anal

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