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Struggling with performing for God's love? In this raw conversation with pastor's wife Liz Martin, discover how to break free from performance-based faith and embrace your true identity in Christ.

In this episode, you'll learn:

  • How "daddy issues" with earthly fathers impact our relationship with our Heavenly Father
  • The difference between confidence and HOLY confidence
  • Why God whispered "I don't love you because you DO, but because you ARE"
  • How spiritual warfare intensifies before women's speaking events (and what to do about it)
  • The "do it again" power of sharing your testimony

Liz shares her powerful testimony of healing after childhood trauma with an addicted father, finding freedom from achievement addiction, and discovering that wearing the crown God placed on you wins over performing for His approval.

If you're a Christian woman speaker, leader, or in ministry battling performance pressure, this episode will transform how you see yourself and step into your God-given platform with holy confidence.

Guest Bio: Liz Martin is a pastor's wife, homeschool mom, women's ministry director, and wedding coordinator in Wilmer, Minnesota. Her ministry focuses on helping women understand their inheritance as daughters of the King.

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Ready to align your faith, appearance, and platform presence? Here's how we can continue the conversation:

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