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Apr 2025
59m 29s

294: Why They Act Interested, Then Disap...

MATTHEW HUSSEY
About this episode
Why do great dates sometimes lead to radio silence? In this new Love Life episode, Matthew, Audrey, and Stephen dive into the mystery of why someone might pull away after what seemed like a perfect first (or second, or third) date. 
 
From the elusive “spark” to deeper compatibility issues, you’ll learn surprising reasons why people choose not to pursue another date—and how to avoid taking it personally. 
 
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