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Apr 2025
50m 16s

Discarded, Ghosted- What To Do? Wed Live

Annalisa Bahadur
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About 10 questions were answered on my usual Wednesday morning Instagram live, which has been uploaded here for your benefit. Some of the questions answered are👇👇👇 I was discarded/ghosted by my DA bf. It was so good until that. But a day came where he asked for space, which I said okay to. That space turned to ghosting.. We were long distance and I alrea ... Show More
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