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Apr 28
37m 50s

Core Emotions Tool in Action: Episode 23...

ELENA AGUILAR
About this episode

Coaching emotions is a foundational ability of a Transformational Coach…and one of the hardest things for many people to do. In this episode, Elena demonstrates how to use the Core Emotions tool in an especially challenging situation–when a client is struggling with external factors like the state of the broader world– but is resistant to talking about their experience.  

Notable moments: 

00:23 The Importance of Coaching Emotions

01:52 Role Play Demonstration Setup

04:01 Starting the Role Play Conversation

04:43 Exploring Emotions and Their Impact

09:05 Reflecting on Emotional Awareness

18:26 Shifting to the Agenda and Debrief

18:38 How to Continue Learning 

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Reflection questions: 

  • How comfortable and confident are you with coaching emotions? 
  • Elena shared that most of the time, people share that they don’t want to make someone else uncomfortable; what they’re really afraid of is their own discomfort. Does this apply to you? 
  • What is one thing you heard Elena do that you would like to try on in your next conversation? 

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