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Apr 2025
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Fried food, friendship and self acceptan...

Courtney DeFeo and Christian Parenting
About this episode

Get ready to laugh! We all need some more Melissa Radkes in our lives. Melissa is not just funny - she’s a mom that is immensely talented. She’s a best-selling author, speaker and television personality. She reminds me of Seinfeld in the ways she observes everyday life and finds the amusement in it all.

I don’t know about you, but I need to have moments in my everyday life to simply lighten up and enjoy it. This episode will allow you to pause and enjoy a chat about all things women. She shares the most hysterical stories about growing up in the South while also sharing heartfelt thoughts on her journey as a mom. She is simply delightful! 

Don’t miss her heartfelt and honest encouragement about learning to accept who you are. She is at a point in her life where she feels settled in her body and personality. However, there was a season when she prayed to be someone else. I pray that last little bit will encourage you in a deep way. Let the truth of what she says sink into your heart – that the God who created you loves exactly who you are.


Much love,

Courtney 


Chapters

(03:01) Navigating Life in Texas

(05:51) Graduation and College Preparations

(08:56) The Importance of Female Friendships

(12:02) The Impact of Women in Our Lives

(14:56) Preparing for College Life

(17:58) Facing Loneliness in College

(18:16) Shared Experiences and Humor in Childhood

(20:21) Nostalgic Family Memories and Food Traditions

(23:51) The Role of Food in Family Dynamics

(26:18) Finding One's Identity and Acceptance

(30:01) Embracing Authenticity and Personal Growth

(32:53) The Joy of Laughter and Connection


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Resources from today’s show:

Connect with Melissa Radke 

Chicken-Fried Women - Melissa’s new book 

Mom’s, Dad’s and Grad’s Gift Guide


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