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Oct 2
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My Virtual Mentor: Intimacy with God wit...

Courtney DeFeo and Christian Parenting
About this episode

I believe the key to parenting, marriage and life is this topic right here - intimacy with God. Are we spending time with God? How do we do this as moms? What if we tried and it's too hard? 

It can be so intimidating to learn about “quiet times” and “prayers.” We are joined today by author, speaker and Bible teacher Stacey Thacker. I love her heart for God’s word and prayer. She gives us so many practical and biblical reasons to make this a priority. 

If you have a mentor (or are a mentor), you can use this episode and the show notes below to easily start a conversation. This is a topic worth discussing and will impact every area of your life.

My favorite part is when Stacey reminds us that the point of getting in God’s word, is that God’s word gets into us. It really doesn’t matter how we do it - just that we are doing it. Let’s do this together this month and memorize Hebrews 12:1-3. Who is in? Put it on a post-it and hide that word in your heart. 


Enjoy!

Courtney


MY VIRTUAL MENTOR GUIDE (INTIMACY WITH GOD)


Scripture to memorize:

Therefore, since we are surrounded by such a great cloud of witnesses, let us throw off everything that hinders and the sin that so easily entangles. And let us run with perseverance the race marked out for us, fixing our eyes on Jesus, the pioneer and perfecter of faith. For the joy set before him he endured the cross, scorning its shame, and sat down at the right hand of the throne of God. Consider him who endured such opposition from sinners, so that you will not grow weary and lose heart. (Hebrews 12:1-3)


Scriptures for prayer and study:

Matthew 6:33

Psalms 46:10 

Colossians 3:16


Books for further study:

A place of quiet rest – Nancy Leigh Demoss

Discerning the Voice of God – Priscilla Shirer

Women of the Word – Jen Wilkin

Practicing the Way – John Mark Comer


Discussion questions:

What is your story of faith? How long have you been walking with God?

What habits and disciplines help increase your intimacy with God?

What are some practical tips for getting time with God?



(00:00) Reconnecting and Family Dynamics

(02:43) The Importance of Community and Mentorship

(05:42) Quiet Time: Nurturing Your Relationship with God

(11:25) The Power of Prayer in Difficult Times

(17:20) Praying for Our Children: Strategies and Insights


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Resources from today’s show:

Connect with Stacey 

Threadbare Prayer 

Praying for Teen Girls

Praying for Teen Boys

The Holderness Family - Open Door, Not Empty Nest


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