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Apr 2025
13m 46s

#114: WHEN HE Pulls Away - No Contact, N...

ADRIENNE EVERHEART
About this episode

Do you love a man who pulls away, goes silent, drops communicating... THEN RETURNS?

This abandonment behavior is not how adults solve problems.

Some time alone to think and process can be healthy for a relationship, but when does that cross a line and become a lengthy break of no contact and silence that feels worrisome, fearful and dreading a breakup?

Plus, it can leave you feeling emotionally fragile, unloved, anxious and insecure. You need not have #anxiousattachment to feel this way!

This issue can be addressed using your #FeminineEnergy scripts, speaking your feelings and requesting the two of you communicate instead of abandon one another.

If you need help finding your words and speaking them so a man truly hears you - get my ebook & course "500 Ways to Talk to a Man" found here.

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